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Where Do Older Adults Really Want to Live?

New Insights from Pew Research Center

You’ve built a life, a home, and a sense of independence. As the years go by, you might wonder—what’s the best way to stay comfortable, safe, and independent if living alone becomes difficult?

A recent survey from the Pew Research Center found that nearly 1 in 5 older adults living alone would choose assisted living if staying in their own home wasn’t possible. That preference is even higher among upper-income seniors, suggesting that assisted living isn’t just a backup plan—it’s a proactive choice for many. 


Aging in Place Remains the Top Choice

Today, 93% of older adults live in their own homes or apartments. Most want to age in place, preferring familiar surroundings where they feel comfortable and in control—even if that means receiving extra help.

Here’s what the survey results show:

  • 60% want to stay in their own home and receive care if needed
  • 18% would choose assisted living
  • 11% would move in with a family member
  • 8% would explore other arrangements
  • 1% would consider a nursing home

Confidence in Future Living Arrangements

Even with clear preferences about the future, confidence can be shaky. Many worry about whether their hopes will match reality:

  • Among those wanting home care, only 37% feel it’s very likely, while 18% think it’s unlikely
  • For assisted living, 35% feel it’s highly likely, while 16% are not so confident
  • Among those planning to live with family, 58% feel optimistic

Cost matters—a lot. Where you hope to live often depends on what you can realistically afford. Only 1 in 5 older adults has long-term care insurance to help cover support costs. For many, the question lingers: Will I have the resources to get the care I need when the time comes?


Key Takeaways

The Pew survey highlights what matters most: independence, practical options, and the power of family support.

  • Independence is a priority: Most older adults hope to stay in their own homes for as long as possible, maintaining control over daily life.
  • Assisted living is a realistic option: Nearly 1 in 5 adults living alone would consider assisted living if staying home wasn’t possible.
  • Finances shape possibilities: Income levels and limited long-term care insurance can make it harder for some to feel confident their preferred plans will work out.
  • Family can make a difference: Those with relatives they can rely on are generally more optimistic about their future living situation.

Planning Ahead Makes a Difference

Knowledge is power—and planning brings peace of mind. The sooner you explore options like home care, assisted living, or financial planning, the better your chances of shaping a future that reflects your goals and values.

Ready to Take the First Step? Don’t wait for a crisis to make important decisions. Visit American Baptist Homes of the Midwest today to explore communities, access helpful resources, and get guidance on your next steps. Take action now to support your loved ones—and yourself—in aging with comfort, dignity, and confidence.